I Wish You Wouldn’t Talk to Me Like That!

22 Apr

Let’s pretend that you had a friend that you liked and felt connected to, but every day when they spoke to you they said things that weren’t very nice. In fact, some of the things they told you could be downright nasty, negative and hurtful.

They might have told you that your clothes didn’t look good on you. That you were putting on weight and soon nothing would fit.

When you had an idea that you thought you’d like to pursue they told you all the reasons why you would most likely fail. Why it wouldn’t work. They might even question your intelligence by calling you stupid or dumb.

At work they might remind you that your talents are few and it probably would be smart not to ask for a raise or promotion. Just stay where you are and be happy you have a job.

If you’re interested in somebody of the opposite sex they might remind you not to get your hopes up too high, considering all your past romances that failed. They may even tell you that the person you’re interested in is out of your league. To settle for someone more like you.

Now let me ask you this, would you continue to be friends with this person considering how they talk to you? I’m sure your answer would be no. Perhaps HELL NO! You would want nothing to do with this person. Because they are certainly not your friend.

Well this “friend” is not easy to get rid of, because this friend is you. For so many, this is how you speak to yourself. You don’t need someone else to tell you these hurtful things because you do a damn good job of beating yourself up and tearing yourself down.

This is your ego talking to you and this must STOP!!! And the first thing you must do is realize that practically everything you say to yourself is a LIE. Yes a lie. Told to you over and over again by someone else; your parents, grandparents, other relatives, friends, siblings, classmates and even teachers. Sometimes it was said to you with love and sometimes with malice, with the intent to hurt you. You accepted these lies about yourself and now you believe them as the truth. But they are not the truth. Never have been and never will be.

If you only knew how truly powerful you are, you wouldn’t put up with this incessant mind numbing garbage for one minute longer.

Just remember your greatest power: You can literally change your thoughts. And when you change your thoughts you change your life.

With Love,


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